Barb, This has been a difficult year for you but you've managed to keep your chin up, keep smiling even though sometimes the smiles and tears showed up at the same time. You have so many great memories, he was a loving husband, father, grandfather and a dear friend to many of us. Ray had a a winning smile, crystal blue eyes and a contagious laugh. We all miss him, I'm sure he's watching over you. Darci, Heidi, Mak and Emma--yu've al suffered a great loss when he passed away, you are all moving on, hope the pain you felt at his passing has diminished and you all can remember the good times. Love, Anita and Tom